I am very blessed.
Tonight, as I was doing the dishes and listening to Mario and Miriam start the bedtime routine, I spent a lot of time reflecting on how blessed I am to have those two special people in my life.
I listened to a conversation that went something like this:
Mario: Miriam, what is that? (pointing at a picture in a book)
Miri: Airplane!
Mario: That's right! What else is in the sky?
Miri: The moon!
Mario: Yes, the moon is in the sky!
(Meanwhile, I'm out there, a proud teacher mama, proud that my 2 year old is making connections, and proud that Mario is helping her and expanding her understanding and background knowledge...yes, I'm a nerd!)
And then I got to thinking....how lucky am I. I have a wonderful daughter and an amazing husband, and I just felt the need to share. Miriam is such an amazing, fun girl, who lights up the room whenever she enters. She smiles all the time, makes us laugh, loves to play jokes (she chased me around the yard tonight trying to squirt me with a hose!!), is already careful and protective of her little brother/sister, and is soaking up everything like a sponge...she can count, recognize letters, has a great memory, and can speak in full sentences. She brings smiles and joy into my life every day, and I'm so thrilled to have such an amazing child as my own.
And then there's Mario. I have to say, when we were dating and got engaged and married, I knew how lucky I was to have met someone like Mario. He's calm when I'm not, we laugh and have a ton of fun together, he's relaxed to my organized personality, and he treats me very, very well. I could have predicted, knowing the kind of man he is, what kind of a father he'd be, but it is one thing to guess and another thing to see it in action. I don't know that he had a lot of experience with babies or little kids before we had Miriam (and I know he'd never changed a diaper!), but he fell into it as naturally as if he'd been doing it forever. He is such an amazing father - caring, attentive, fun, and he gives Miriam his undivided attention. She (and I) know how important she is to him, and you can tell from their interactions that they have a very special relationship. A lot of times, when I hear Mario and Miriam playing together or having a conversation, I pause for a moment and think about how lucky I am to have married someone who is an equally amazing partner to me and parent to our child(ren), and I think about how lucky Miriam (and Skittle) are to have such an amazing, caring, fun father. He works so hard for our family, and I appreciate and love him more than I can ever explain.
I am very blessed.